tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post116399708267399583..comments2023-12-01T10:53:44.750-08:00Comments on Against All Heresies: Marriage: Top Ten List of Why Traditional Catholic Men Do Not MarryM. Alexanderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11628512667279950596noreply@blogger.comBlogger67125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-69040099813281067642014-03-12T09:16:25.586-07:002014-03-12T09:16:25.586-07:00Lol right ohLol right ohJoe Mattiesnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-7084702844053007662014-03-12T09:10:56.210-07:002014-03-12T09:10:56.210-07:00We do exist. Where are you at? I'm a trad I gu...We do exist. Where are you at? I'm a trad I guess. I haven't gotten married because I can't find one single girl in my age range all over the united states that will attend the Latin mass and wants to raise good strong catholic children. And I make lots of money. I've never my based dating on looks. I just want a real catholic and not some modernist.Joe Mattiesnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-92031882426663525392014-02-16T19:27:05.260-08:002014-02-16T19:27:05.260-08:00These bitter feminazis bash "Traditional Cath...These bitter feminazis bash "Traditional Catholic" men who make up, what, .05% of single men? <br /><br />The real problem is what one of the other Anonymous people said, and that is the ENTRENCHED MISANDRY inculcated into women by the leftist, secular, culture. <br /><br />Google "The Misandry Bubble" and read the well-written, and SPOT-ON essay written by an Indian fellow (not a NATIVE American) as he is not from Western culture originally, but sees the trees before the forest. <br /><br />He says 22% of men (like MYSELF) have been left to die on the singles vine, so we have EITHER been forced out of the "marriage game" or FLAT-OUT refuse to get married (if one can get the milk, why buy the COW???). <br /><br />That leaves all of you beautiful, enchanting, intelligent, hypergamous, divorce for the money, beer-guzzling, pot smoking, pill popping, Daddy's Princesses to become wife #3,4,or 5 of some Alpha male that you try to steal from the Alpha male's PREVIOUS wife.<br /><br />The 22% probably contain some Traditional Catholic men ("Trads"<br /> as many of you call them), but as other posters have said, they have never even met a Traditional Catholic man! <br /><br />So that means it's men of many religions and also non-religious, women using and abusing, cads, bailing out of marrying you bitches who are bitching on here about decent men not marrying twats like yourselves. <br /><br />The BIGGEST LIE that the leftist, secular, culture tells women is that men JUST CAN'T GET THROUGH LIFE WITHOUT SEX. <br /><br />Keep believing that. Some of the 22% of men who refuse to get married have figured out to just think about baseball.<br /><br />Do not ask for whom the bell tolls, for it tolls for thee.<br /><br />==========================Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-76676974690125809772013-08-12T19:32:02.013-07:002013-08-12T19:32:02.013-07:00A couple of issues here. The trad community can be...A couple of issues here. The trad community can be very standoffish and judgemental. I have seen it first hand many times. On the other hand there are beautiful, true Catholics there that KNOW..actually KNOW their faith and love it. That said I can see the difficulty because society continues to lie to women non stop 24/7 in the media and culture telling them they can be this, have that, and do it all, just get on the pill and dump the rugrats off and daycare and enjoy your empowered life!<br /><br />In closing here is a rather ominous quote from Saint Hildegard (Doctor of the Church) regarding a future time of chastisement "After that there will be so few men left that seven women will fight for one man, that they will say to the man: "Marry me to take the disgrace from me." For in those days it will be a disgrace for a woman to be without child, as it was by the Jews in the Old Testament."<br />Too proud to wear a skirt or veil in the Church in front of God almighty truly present? Well, tough times a comin' per Saint Hildegard.<br /><br /> <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-52433269634344788752013-06-28T21:21:43.671-07:002013-06-28T21:21:43.671-07:00Interesting comments. I was a traditional catholi...Interesting comments. I was a traditional catholic young male. I was a virgin for most of my single life (~3 months of bad decisions during my 3 year courtship), and for most of my marriage. My eventual wife was catholic, but had at least 8 sexual partners, and used me to settle herself down. My brother is making the same decision with the woman he's now engaged to. In hindsight, I would have a loved a little more guidance. I've been racked with guilt since feeling the loss of grace, and am certainly not the same man I was before. The funny thing was that I had turned away many other women, some of whom were very forward, prior to my eventual wife. I wish I had looked a little harder for a more traditional wife, and been a bit more wary of a catholic girl who wanted sex within the first 2 weeks of our dating life, and who's Eve like arguments, I accepted with the same lake of forethought as did Adam. Now, I'm not even half the man I was, not happy, and longing for the days when my life was more disciplined. Trad guys should loosen up a little, but shouldn't probably date women who have been having sex with various guys for over a decade, prior to finding the light, and wanting to date someone like them. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-64899411966226762342012-02-14T04:40:11.380-08:002012-02-14T04:40:11.380-08:00I wonder if there are 10 reasons traditional catho...I wonder if there are 10 reasons traditional catholic women do not get married?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-36637071707110407112011-12-30T23:53:01.079-08:002011-12-30T23:53:01.079-08:00I recently met a traditionalist Catholic guy from ...I recently met a traditionalist Catholic guy from a Christian dating website. He's American and I am born and raised Filipino. I've never known about traditionalists, etc. mainly because it was never really openly discussed in church here in the Philippines. I have not met him in person but as far as our month old relationship is going, it's been a roller coaster ride. I have been trying to dig in to his ideals by learning about traditionalism in the Catholic Church. I am a conservative Catholic myself but I love my boyfriend and I am willing to bridge our gap between us. This blog and the discussions have truly been insightful and have cleared some cobwebs in my mind. Anyone of you can suggest good websites/tips for me so I can better improve my relationship with him? He's already proposed to marry me despite not having met me in person. This is the confusing part though, because, I think of it and ask myself, what traditionalist would ever want to marry someone he hasn't spent at least 8 months with and hasn't really met in person? Suggestions and commentaries even personal email advice are very welcome. He wants to meet me next month, January 2012 here in the Philippines and so this matter is deemed urgent. If you please, you can send me email replies at rosannechatty22@gmail.com <br />Thank you for all your kind replies. God bless all of us!R. Acainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08591707427355778622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-88054481863859194442011-11-02T12:39:18.872-07:002011-11-02T12:39:18.872-07:00Uhhhhh how can you use this word SUBMISSIVE! Don&...Uhhhhh how can you use this word SUBMISSIVE! Don't you know how offensive it is to women. How sad that this woman who said all she wanted to do was to have kids and cook and be home is now finding her husband wants a divorce! I think she needs to see the danger of this SUBMISSION. I am traditional in my Catholicism because I believe that the new mass is a perversion. I don't accept it and I want to live in accordance with the Church of Ages. I do not want to live though as a woman in the 1500s. I think we can be EDUCATED and ENLIGHTENED and also conservative religiously. The danger of not going to college and RELYING on a man is illustrated by the case of this poor abandoned woman! Don't rely on a man. Build yourself. These are two different things. We have to live in the world and survive in the world.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-64753711660795058382011-10-29T22:03:30.197-07:002011-10-29T22:03:30.197-07:00the top ten list is great. i totally agree. i wa...the top ten list is great. i totally agree. i want to say to the 'anonymous' male who gives his own disgusting list and writes several pompous and arrogant comments that he gives women lots of reasons to hate him. he embodies the worst qualities of men and is particularly worthy of contempt because he is traditional. instead of being sympathetic to women and himself condemning the selfish and destructive behaviors of men he apologizes for men and blames women. Why are so many women filing for divorce? Maybe they are absolutely unable to tolerate being treated like a doormat by a man they took care of, had children with, sacrificed their own interests to make his life happier. I am sorry to say that some traditional men say one thing and do another. Furthermore some traditional are traditional because they feel it will give them a justification to oppress and control women!!! i know your number Mr. Anonymous. Someone else pointed it out: Why is it that you find yourself on dates with women who dress like Brittany Spears? I'll tell you why because you look down on women, you want to dominate a woman and you are at heart a libertarian!!! You just want an equal you want a subordinate so the cutey who flirts and dresses like that appeals to your twisted sense of masculinity. Stop hiding behind traditionalism you hypocrite. If you were really traditional you would not write these bitter and hateful remarks. You would view women as full and complete human beings worthy of respect and you'd listen to their VALID complaints.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-52763655102053779772011-08-23T21:24:59.956-07:002011-08-23T21:24:59.956-07:00oh and I am sure that my post will be approved...oh and I am sure that my post will be approved...Jozef Schutzmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01708721606537237703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-2328869435364202252011-08-23T21:24:11.690-07:002011-08-23T21:24:11.690-07:00um...wow...we have a modern skeptic here. Apparent...um...wow...we have a modern skeptic here. Apparently, it is a problem for a guy to hold to Traditional Catholic values and try to find the ideal spouse...I happen to know several Traditional Catholic guys that have gotten married to beautiful women and had wonderful large families. <br /><br />I love how this article assumes Traditional Catholic guys as snotty nosed brats who only want the very best to fulfill all their desires...like a woman to wear a dress skirt!!! <br /><br />God forbid that a man seek a modest wife as opposed to the typical modern girl in tight fitting jeans strutting down the street. <br /><br />God forbid that a man should seek a wife that heeds St. Paul's admonishment and covers her head with a veil. <br /><br />God forbid that a man seek a woman who desires no more and no less the amount of children that He so desires (I think everybody should have no more than two children, otherwise you won't be able to afford that new car or the 60" TV.)<br /><br />God forbid that a man seek out a woman that would be submissive! How dare he, of course that is old fashioned jibberish from the Bible, we live in America! Liberty, Equality and Stupidity for all! <br /><br />I am sorry that this article to be written to justify somebody's apparent dislike for the supposed stereotype of a Traditional Catholic. <br /><br />I think we should root for your average Joe who loves to see his women in spaghetti straps and plunging necklines. The men who objectify women through their bodies. Definitely! Forget those nerds who actually are concerned with any kind of principles that are handed down to us via Tradition and the Bible. Great idea!Jozef Schutzmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01708721606537237703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-60232350395317453412011-02-15T15:32:21.716-08:002011-02-15T15:32:21.716-08:00I am a traditional Catholic and met my husband at ...I am a traditional Catholic and met my husband at the Latin Mass. I would only wear skirts/dresses, want lots of children, would homeschool, didin't attend college. I met different types of men and felt blessed that God sent me such a traditional, religious Catholic man. Just want to be a housewife and mother ... cook, bake,clean, do laundry,etc. Now my husband suddenly wants to divorce me ...what am I to do?! Anyone that reads this please pray for me, thanks.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-45609373996670082142010-11-19T09:49:40.064-08:002010-11-19T09:49:40.064-08:00As a mom, I think part of the problem is that the ...As a mom, I think part of the problem is that the parents are not helping their children to chose wisely. In our society, in America, parents have abdicated their rights to give advice on the subject of marriage. Being independent is fine, but even adult children need guidance. <br /><br />In addition, many young men do not want to sacrifice their lifestyles for children. The anti-life culture has affected them as well, in a more subtle way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-1918602809512263652010-05-16T16:06:17.617-07:002010-05-16T16:06:17.617-07:00"Women are the only realists. Their whole obj..."Women are the only realists. Their whole object in life is to pit their realism against the extravagant, excessive, occasionally drunken idealism of men." ChestertonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-51679463553175411792010-04-06T12:23:20.642-07:002010-04-06T12:23:20.642-07:00Ive basically quit looking. I have found that 90% ...Ive basically quit looking. I have found that 90% of the traditional Catholic females ive known aren't looking for traditional Catholic men. It seems that they tend to go for the Novus Ordo guys and non-Catholics so they have a chance to "convert" them. Its a sad situation.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-61690730306839226412010-03-05T05:25:15.632-08:002010-03-05T05:25:15.632-08:00Da kann ich nur zustimmen..Da kann ich nur zustimmen..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-14100562209946887462010-01-19T18:05:45.485-08:002010-01-19T18:05:45.485-08:00i think this "top 10 list" is quite offe...i think this "top 10 list" is quite offensive! unfortunately, this kind of prejudice-spreading paper is a very common way out to avoid facing the real issues. of course it's much easier to make fun instead of trying to understand things... but i must say it is unfair and no stereotype of anykind can be the best way to express one's ideas...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-83630931206994017772010-01-19T08:48:25.454-08:002010-01-19T08:48:25.454-08:00At last, I could find this article again. You have...At last, I could find this article again. You have few [url=http://tipswift.com]useful tips[/url] for my school project. Now, I won't forget to bookmark it. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-48662895082623836332009-12-26T16:53:36.489-08:002009-12-26T16:53:36.489-08:00To the most previous anonymous: It really depends...To the most previous anonymous: It really depends on where you live, as to what the odds are of meeting a nice, traditional woman. There are many people who feel as you do in EU especially, and a bit on the coastal areas in the US. Parts of the midwest in the US are very conservative, and there are many traditional families helping to influence the culture through their prayers and example. I know several (not many but several) women who are truly traditional by your standards. As a traditional woman who's usually not unattractive, I experience the same with regards to traditional men. There seems to be a few more traditional single women than men.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-82593165825199678312009-12-17T02:44:16.935-08:002009-12-17T02:44:16.935-08:00Where in the name of Goodness do you meet modest t...Where in the name of Goodness do you meet modest traditional Catholic women? I never meet any. The whole world seems to have been poisoned by the perversion of Feminism. The only women I ever see are trouser-wearing, loud-mouthed angry females who seem to think that they have a mandate from on high to instruct and educate men as to their proper role and appropriate behaviour and refuse to accept the slightest rebuke.And these are the ones that call themselves traditional! Mutual respect is demanded of us. And women were not given carte blanche to rule the roost. When I was at college, the whole agenda was feminist! Even the men taught feminism! And I was told that I was a woman-hater for questioning it!<br />Marriage with the modern woman? No thanks! I would rather stay celibate my whole life!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-44036203042219168372009-09-23T12:48:25.961-07:002009-09-23T12:48:25.961-07:00It would be nice if you could add our blog to your...It would be nice if you could add our blog to your blogroll: www.catholicheritage.blogspot.comSemper Eademhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14166983669744234781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-53044518208850838522009-03-29T21:40:00.000-07:002009-03-29T21:40:00.000-07:00Dear Anonymous, most recent,Yes most mothers in mo...Dear Anonymous, most recent,<BR/><BR/>Yes most mothers in most places should homeschool their children, unless there is a Traditional Catholic school available. However, I am satirizing the fact that there are such diverse opinions on this topic.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for reading ;)<BR/>MaryM. Alexanderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11628512667279950596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-60709975303705019282009-03-29T19:19:00.000-07:002009-03-29T19:19:00.000-07:00What does #2 mean anyway? Shouldn't mothers homes...What does #2 mean anyway? Shouldn't mothers homeschool their children? I think who ever wrote this is a bit disgruntled and needs to move to a more traditional-minded region or community.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-47248717045418130212009-01-19T15:11:00.000-08:002009-01-19T15:11:00.000-08:00+Hear Hear!, Mark+This is very true. I am the mos...+Hear Hear!, Mark+<BR/><BR/>This is very true. I am the most previous "anonymous", and I have to say that the truth is that there are very limited number of traditional men. I did not grow up traditional, and I was not introduced to such men, but had I been I would have married one. Also, a woman who is meek, as she should be, isn't going to make the first move. And traditional Catholic men, at least the better ones, usually have a tough time approaching single woman for whom they may have an interest. The stakes are so high because there are just so few of us Catholics with truly traditional values (inc. desiring to ascend the heights of the spiritual life rather than to live by worldly presumption). We are simply our own worse enemy if we attack other traditional Catholics when the fact is that we are a minority in the world, and meeting the right (by traditional, Catholic standards) someone is not easy for us. <BR/><BR/>Also, it may be true that traditional Catholic men who were raised in traditional Catholic homes may be more reluctant to marry a woman who was not raised in a traditional Catholic home. A person shouldn't condescend their values for marriage, but on the other hand, they shouldn't pass judgment on people that have acquired the values by means of grace, devotion and putting them into years of practice.<BR/><BR/>Trad women seem more open if they came from a non-trad background, but I don't think that is a good idea for us.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20534374.post-20240788950439968072008-11-09T20:56:00.000-08:002008-11-09T20:56:00.000-08:00Obviously this "list" is from frustrated women/men...Obviously this "list" is from frustrated women/men who reject or refuse to live up to higher Catholic standards, thus distorting the traditional Catholic values into something "unfashionable", which in turn, alienates those who have not had the availability of a proper Catholic education.<BR/><BR/>Educated Catholics see this facade for what it is. This childish attempt to degrade the traditional Catholic standards for a spouse is very common in the secular/judeo American world.<BR/><BR/>Watch "Opra", "Survivor", or any other childish nonsense and you will agree with this article... or live the Catholic Faith and reject this article for the garbage it is.Tomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16732958058785169645noreply@blogger.com